Childless man dating single mom
Here are some gold stars.
With respect to my two friends who married single moms, neither of them were what you'd consider 'ready to settle down' prior to meeting these women. Women, especially mothers, are cut for work.
Someone to pros and cons of dating a younger man me emotionally and mentally. They already know how to out others before themselves.
I just wanted to thank you for the time you took to single explain how kids affected you. Men seek women for more than sex. On the balance of probabilities - dating a single mother is not going to result in a happy outcome for you. I guess they considered me to be that "cool uncle". I think we are going to make it!
In actuality, many childless singles find single moms very attractive as they can, in a lot of ways, be more mature and independent than a young, developing woman.
The juice isn't worth the squeeze. The mom didn't have to worry much about sharing attention but that also made things awkward when we tried to do dating colombian man stuff".
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It won't matter that he's not guilty he'll lose his job, his life, and his relationships because the stain of those false accusations will never go away. So many stories in the comments that ring true, very hard and expensive lesson to learn from life experience as I did. Many sound like they have terrible relationships with their mothers. I thought this one would work out great.
Is single mommy poisoning the kids against him, using them as a weapon against him? Hopefully guys read your story and learn from it. I know of a case in New Mexico and a couple in California where a man was forced to pay child support for not his own spawn. If this happens so many times, it can be emotionally harmful to the child.
I'm not even going to tell my story because it's so similar to everyone else's.
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He definitely wants your attention but mans that your job order is being mommy first, gf second. If your ambition is to be a tissue for all her sob stories - then go ahead. I support myself, always have, and my children with no help. Put in the effort into dating it special every time. Good luck with your future relationshipso - he will leave you for a single mom that is just a better person.
I hope this helps. That's just asking for drama and future therapy sessions.
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Do yourself a favour guys, if you can avoid a divorced mum with kids, stay away, or at least make damn sure you never take a back seat or take any of the bullshit I tolerated above. Having done so well for yourself, you'll be in a much better position than someone who acts out mom desperation. Its a womans go-to when we men get mad at the b.